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The afterbirth story

At my 20 week ultrasound the radiologist noted then something was a
little funky with my placenta. Her exact words were “I’ve never seen one
this wide spread before, it’s everywhere” It was anterior, also wrapped
around the right wall, then extended from the fundus to fairly low down
by the cervix. She didn’t mention it at the time but on the report she
also wrote that it was thin. It was recommended I have a repeat
ultrasound at around 28-32 weeks to see if the placenta had moved away
from the uterine scar, as it was ambiguous at the time whether or not
the placenta was encroaching on the scar.

I tried not to devote to much thought to the concept of accreta,
although being who I am I did have to read a few studies and inform
myself a little on the likelihood of it occurring. I decided that yes
there was a significant increased risk having both a low lying and
anterior placenta following a c/section, but that risk was still low
enough I wouldn’t change my plans from a homebirth on the basis of ‘what
if’. Although I didn’t plan to make any firm decisions either way until
I’d had the later scan.

The 32 week ultrasound showed the placenta looking fairly normal, well
nothing abnormal was noted about it anyway. The lower edge was about
16cm’s away from the internal os which probably meant it was well away
from the internal scar also, although the scar itself could not be seen
to confirm this.
With this new knowledge I put all thoughts of accreta away and continued
with my plans for a homebirth.

The birth itself, although a few weeks early, was uncomplicated and
occurred at home as planned. It was a fairly rapid birth and although I
had good intentions I never actually got around to calling the midwife
so it was an unassisted homebirth.
Oscar was born at 5:30pm, and the first half hour after his birth was
spent exploring him and introducing him to his brothers and sisters.
Around 6:00pm they were getting hungry for dinner and started wandering
off, and I turned my attention to myself and wondering when the placenta
would make its appearance. So far I’d had no blood leakage, not even a
drop. Oscar was still attached to me, and I didn’t want to cut his cord
until the placenta had arrived. My husband had rung the midwife and on
my instruction told her I and the baby were well and all was fine. She
gave him instructions to ring if we needed her so somehow he had implied
we didn’t need her to come up right then, which in all honesty we didn’t
as all was well at that stage.

Around 6:30pm I felt an afterpain and decided I’d give a little push and
fully expected to see a placenta as a result. What I got instead was a
rush of clots about the size of a placenta but no actual placenta. How
very weird, this has never happened before. I gave a gentle tug on the
cord to see if it ‘gave’ any. It didn’t budge. I put my fingers inside
myself to see if I could feel it sitting in the vagina, no placenta but
another large flood of clots and liquid blood came out. I decided this
wasn’t quite right and asked my daughter to call my midwife and get her
to come up. She came back in to sit with me and I had another flood of
blood. I was sitting in it up to my hips now. I asked her to pull the
birth mats out from under me and replace them with some new ones. We did
this another three times, after the third time my husband popped back
into the room; he’d been busy settling the other children up till then.
I looked up at him and felt decidedly dizzy and faint. I said ‘Ring an
ambulance NOW’. I knew I was bleeding a lot and needed to get that
placenta out so I decided to cut the cord and sent them both of for the
scissors out of the medical kit and some wool to tie it. I had intended
on making some cross stitch thread braided cord ties but the early birth
caught me unprepared.  Once he was unattached from me I got myself into
a position to try and push out the placenta. All that came out of me was
more blood though. I had a very strong suspicion by this stage that it
was adhered and despite my best efforts it just wasn’t going to come out.

Around 7:00pm the ambulance arrived and the midwives arrived about 5
minutes after them. I was really pleased that one of the medics was an
old friend I’d met about 13 years earlier when we were both having our
first homebirths. The first thing she said to me was ‘congratulations’ I
can’t tell you how much that meant to me and how much it set me at ease.
The other guy was equally as lovely and commented on how much better
this transfer was going than his last homebirth transfer where he
stepped firmly in the ice cream container holding the placenta.

My midwife inspected my uterus and the blood loss and decided it was a
lot around 700-800mls but not too horrid. She gave a little tug on the
placenta but nothing was a budging. I expressed my concern she be gentle
as the last think I wanted was a severed cord from the placenta or an
inverted uterus. She assessed there was a very full bladder and little
to no contractions going on. She gave me an injection of 10 units synto
IM and a few minutes later contractions started up, she tried again to
gently pull on the cord while I pushed with all my worth. Just more
blood, it was coming faster now with the synto bringing on contractions
and I was getting very light headed and loosing strength. She agreed it
was most likely adhered and we needed to transport.

There was a quick scramble for baby clothes and something for me to
wear. They were concerned about covering me but really at that point I
didn’t care if I was starkers, I felt like my life was slipping away and
clothes were the last thing on my mind. I left knickerless and in a bra
and tee shirt with my dressing gown over me. My daughter and midwife
came with me in the ambulance, my daughter rode up front, she came to
look after Oscar as my husband needed to settle things at home before he
could follow. He other midwife took her car and followed us.

Once in the Ambulance my midwife put in a venflon and set up a running
line. More synto was run through with the saline and I was put onto O2.
I continued to loose blood in the ambulance, and started to loose
consciousness. They set up a line in the ambulance and ran more ecbolic
through a drip. I asked if it was ok to sleep and they said yes so I
did. I woke up every time I felt a rush of blood come out of me and
asked Sandra to check it. At one point after a check she told John the
ambulance driver to go to lights and sirens. I remember the ambulance
picking up speed dramatically and thought of my daughter up front and my
new baby inside and begged them to slow down, it seemed so unsafe to me
to be traveling so fast. I must of fallen back asleep or fainted because
my next memory was of pulling into the ambulance bay and heading up to
maternity.

I was wheeled into a LDRP (Labour, delivery, recovery and postnatal)
room and the ob on call was there to greet us. He gave me a reassuring
smile and I even mustered one back.
He began to examine me internally, thank goodness he was a small
Pakistani man with small hands, that was no fun let me tell you. He said
straight away lets get to theatre so I assumed by that the placenta
wasn’t coming out on its own. Around about then I started feeling really
bad. Sounds were fading, people seemed in the distance and I was
drifting off, I felt I was dying. I said before I lost consciousness
‘Please don’t let me die’. I wasn’t out for long and came to as they
were wheeling me out of the room. I could see my daughter and I told her
I loved her, I said look after Oscar, take care of him. I was passing
the role of his mother on to her. I wanted her to love him like I loved
him if I didn’t recover from this. I willed every last ounce of my love
into that baby, I knew he’d never remember me but I wanted to pass him
something unseen, a protection, a wish, a blessing, from mother to
child, something that would always be with him even when I wasn’t. He
was the last thing on my mind before I lost consciousness again.

Next time I came to I was in the receiving bay of the theatre. My
midwife was with me and gave me a hug, she told me they were going to
give me a general and it would be a quick operation and I’d be back out
here in 10 minutes and she’d be waiting for me, this was just before
8:30pm. I was wheeled into theatre and a female theatre staff member
started explaining what was happening, she told me just before I went
under they were going to pinch the tube down the front of my throat, I
may feel it or I may be asleep by then. I apologised for being so
grubby, I said I hadn’t had a chance to have a shower and they laughed
and said that was ok. Someone was stroking my head, it was very
soothing, then I had a warm blanket laid over me, toasty. The last thing
I remember was someone putting their fingers over my throat and saying
are you ready.

When I came too I was back up in the LDRP and my husband was there.
Another ob was explaining to him about the bleeding and that if it
started again he’d have to take the uterus. I groaned ‘no uterus’ and
they looked down at me and realised I was awake. I sort of drifted in
and out of semi sleep and said random things that kept everyone amused.
  I asked if I’d had the baby yet, I couldn’t remember if I was at the
hospital to give birth or not, I couldn’t remember why I was there at
all. When I did remember why I was there I asked my husband if he’d fed
the baby and he said something like ‘yeah we offered him some toast but
he didn’t seem interested’ ha-ha so funny, not.

I found out later my 10 minute operation turned into a 3 hour operation.
I had a fairly established accreta and as the ob tried to remove it I
bled severely. When he couldn’t stop the bleeding he

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40.5 wk appt

BP still fine at 125/70, trace of protein (last week it was +1, so that’s
good), I weigh 77.75 kg; baby same as last week (ie, head down and a bit into
the pelvis).

BUT because on Sat I reach <gasp> officially 41 weeks (based on LMP and 28-day
cycle), the Dr wants me to go in then for a CTG of the baby, and to have an
appointment at my delivery hospital on the following Monday.  Seems a bit daft
to me, as the early US only showed the 19th as my due date, but apparently
this is the 41-week protocol.  Didn’t happen with DS four years ago, so
perhaps this is a difference between midwifery care and obstetric.  I’ll ask
on Saturday, if I get there, and make a few comments about Wasting Staff Time.

At the 41-wk appt on Monday, according to my notes, I will be "offered" a
vaginal exam.  That’s the first reference I’ve encountered to such a thing so
far, and I’ll have no hesitation in refusing it.  I’ll have to ask why they
bother!

Anyway, it meant I got to ring up the Big Hospital again, and now I know for
sure that my records (including my labour records, as I requested) are where
they ought to be.  Spoke to a lovely mw named Melissa in the birth unit and am
now hoping I don’t go into labour on Monday, because she’s off that day!  But
the other mws I’ve met/spoken to there are good too.

Hm, perhaps we will go out to an Indian restaurant on Friday night!  We’ve
heard of a good one nearby that we haven’t tried ;-)


Chookie — Sydney, Australia
(Replace "foulspambegone" with "optushome" to reply)

"In Melbourne there is plenty of vigour and eagerness, but there is
nothing worth being eager or vigorous about."
Francis Adams, The Australians, 1893.

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Aust. Maternity payment

It goes up on July 2006 not 2005 like many have reported.This is taken from
an interview with Mr smiley Costello in April.

TREASURER:

I have got one for you, you are going to get an increase in the maternity
payment, it is going to go up to $4,000 on 1 July 2006

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41 week appt

Where do I start?  I went in this morning, half hoping that there’d be some
reason that i’d have to stay in and that the baby would be born within the
next day or so.  OTOH, I was fully prepared to fight my corner should
everything look alright but any pressure was applied for an ercs.  Neither
happened.

The doctor had a medical student with him, so was explaining all the
procedures in words of one syllable ;-) to him.  Basically he said that a
VBAC had a 60-80% chance of success but induction dropped that to about 40%.
AROM was a possibility but any hormonal method of induction was considered
too risky because of the scar.  He wanted to do an internal and a quick
scan, both of which I agreed to.

The scan showed that there was plenty of fluid around the baby and the
heartbeat was fine but the baby’s head is deflexed and still at 4/5 palp.
He then went off to get a midwife to act as chaperone.  The internal showed
my cervix as being long, tight, hard and posterior (assuming I read his
writing in my notes correctly, he just said that it wasn’t currently
dilating) but he attempted a stretch and sweep of the membranes.

After that, he suggested that he either go and find the consultant to
discuss booking a section or that I return on Friday for a full biophysical
check.  DH and I both agreed that we didn’t want to schedule any
intervention until next week at the latest and he was quite ammenable to
that.  However, both DH and I got the impression that had I wanted he would
have booked me in there and then, so hopefully the med student learned
something about listening to the patient :-) .

He went through the factors under which I should go straight into the
hospital – Pain, Bleeding, Waters or Movement (decreasing) – again aiming
his mono-syllable explanation towards the student rather than me since I had
indicated that I was already aware of them.

So here I sit and wait.  The BPP is booked for Friday morning and after that
it’s a question of just taking it one check-up at a time. If it gets to next
Wednesday without any change, then I’ll be going for the c/s, I’m not
prepared to go beyond 42 weeks. I know the stats don’t jump that much after
that but my own personal comfort factor kicks in at that stage.

Jean

DD – June ’02
EDD – May ’05

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My long weekend/week

This might end up sounding like a whine, but I’m feeling a little
overwhelmed!!

I hit 20 weeks on Thursday (yea!!), but I’ve been dealing with a horrible
toothache and tooth sensitivity.  I’ve also got a raging yeast infection
that I started treatment on (finally) and hemmorhoids.  What else can go
wrong??  Well, I can barely walk due to excruciating pain in my right leg.
I think, but I’m not positive, that it’s sacro-iliac joint pain.  I can’t
stand without yelping, though.  I’m also suffering with allergies that are
attacking the whites of my eyes.  LOL  I look like I have pink eye some
mornings with how red they are.  Sigh…

My 2yo jumped off the couch on Sunday.  And REALLY hurt himself.  We went to
the ER after calling the nurseline after he cried for two hours straight.
He had an x-ray and nothing showed up, but a radiologist didn’t do the
reading.   We were sent home, told to give him Tylenol or Motrin, and if he
wouldn’t put weight on it the next day go see our regular physician.  After
a sleepless half a night and almost continual crying on Monday morning I
took him in to the doctor.  She gently touched his foot an ankle and boy,
did he yelp!  The doctor decided we should go see an orthopedic doctor to
see if he needed another x-ray (because the radiologist didn’t see anything
on Sunday’s xrays when she called over).  Spencer did get another x-ray
(which he did NOT want-he didn’t care we were getting a "cool" picture of
his foot), and he was pissed that the doctor was going to "poke" (his word)
foot again.  There was a hairline spiral fracture on his tibia (I believe
that is what the dr said-it’s what I could hear over the unhappiness of my
child), and Spencer is now sporting a splint.  Which he does not care for.
Even with Tylenol, the nights are still partly sleepless.  From 3am on.
:(  I think I’m trying Motrin tonight, and I hope for better results!
Mama’s tired, Daddy’s tired, and poor baby (though, he says he’s NOT a baby,
he’s a BOY!)…  He can’t walk for two weeks, so I’m having to carry him
everywhere.   Which isn’t helping the hip pain!

I also had an unofficial u/s on the same day at a different hospital.  A
friend of mine was willing to do one.    I’ve had a sense this pregnancy
that something wasn’t quite right.  I’ve really worried about clubfoot,
spina bifida, that kind of thing, because the pregnancy has been so similar
to my pregnancy that resulted in a clubfoot baby (which isn’t a huge deal,
but spina bifida was a concern there, though it was NOT a problem).  Anyway,
I planned on this being my only u/s if nothing showed up.  Well, something
possibly did, so I’m going to be scheduling a regular u/s.  She referred to
it as an enlarged lateral vesicle in the brain.  I did some net searching,
and of course, the worst freaks me out and the not-so-bad gives me hope.
She did say it could be completely resolved by the time I get another u/s,
but she really thought I needed an official one.  I agree.

Up until this point, though, I’ve been only seeing my midwife.  Which I was
quite happy with.  Unfortunately, my ob/gyn has given me the brush off, the
2-3 times I’ve tried to get in to see her for a prenatal (once at 10 weeks,
another time at around 15 weeks, and this week).  So off on a search I go.
I need to find a  new doctor.

So, all in all, I’m trying not to feel stressed, but I am!!  I’m tired.  I
just feel like sleeping.  I have a multitude of emotions regarding the
possible diagnoses of this baby.

Well, this ended up longer than I planned.  Thanks for listening.


Joy

Rose 1-99
Iris 2-01
Spencer 3-03
# 4 Oct 2005

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feeding baby tips please

I’m breastfeeding Emily Rose (now 2 weeks and 6 days) and she seems to want to feed constantly over the last few days.

I think it may be a growth spurt but feeding hourly is killing me !!

So any tips on getting her to sleep at night instead of during the day, and getting her to feed longer (and stay awake during feeds) to make feeding between feeds longer appreciated.

Cheers Guys



Karen
DS 10th Aug 1986 – VB – 9lb 13oz
DD 13th Aug 1988 – VB – 10lb 9oz
EDD 9th May 2005 – It’s a girl !! – Now Inducing on 27th April
Sophie’s Prediction for us – Girl

Our Latest Scan Photo
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Get off my back!!!

…I wish I could, but I can’t!  I’ve awakened the last few days laying
on my back, despite my own best efforts at staying on my side (pillows,
towels, etc. – I just throw them off the bed in my sleep, much to the
dog’s dismay).

I’m not experiencing any funny symptoms like dizziness or
lightheadedness when I wake up, but I’m concerned that the baby’s being
deprived of oxygen while I’m asleep and completely unaware of what I’m
doing.

So, how big a deal is this sleeping on the left side thing?  Does my
body have enough sense to move if I’m doing harm to my baby, even if
I’m sleeping?  Do I need to put spikes in the bed, or is it really no
big deal if that’s the only comfortable position for me to sleep in,
and if my body insists on sleeping that way, in spite of my best
efforts?  I’m 27 weeks, by the way…  It seemed easier to stay on my
side a few weeks ago.  The bigger I get, the more my body wants to be
on my back.

Thanks in advance,
Amy
Stubbornly sleeping on my back since 1976
EDD 8/17/05

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home versus hospital birth

Can anyone send me their experiences of home births versus
hospitalization.  I am interested in anyone who feels that the home
birth option is better.

Thanks

Toni

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THE VACCINATION HOAX

http://www.whale.to/b/hoax1.html

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Cloth diaper question

We’re using cloth diapers and a diaper service, and everything’s been fine
until this past week.  For some reason, Micah’s now producing copious
amounts of pee and is soaking through both the diaper and the pro-wrap; he
soaked through in 45 minutes this morning.  Does anyone reccommend
anything besides the pro-wrap, preferably something not TOO expensive?  Or
what about those liners — do they work?  Thanks!  :)

Em
mama to Micah, 11/14/04

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